Well, you have the LJ name, so even if she is writing on archives as Fer-de-Lance, there shouldn t be any confusion on LJ about who is who. She(?) will be the one with two handles for her person, and that does get old, most people this happens to end-up changing their name so it is consistent over-all.
I understand, though, how you feel. I would go ape-shit if someone started using my name. I think I have gotten to most archives first though with my username :-)
I guess the best advice is just to ignore her. If you want to post at archives though, I would suggest you find those you want to use and then open an account in the Fer-de-lance name before she does(piss on your territory as Icarus said). Oh, and if she is at ff.net? Don t worry about it. No one over thirteen reads there anyway :-P
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I understand, though, how you feel. I would go ape-shit if someone started using my name. I think I have gotten to most archives first though with my username :-)
I guess the best advice is just to ignore her. If you want to post at archives though, I would suggest you find those you want to use and then open an account in the Fer-de-lance name before she does(piss on your territory as Icarus said). Oh, and if she is at ff.net? Don t worry about it. No one over thirteen reads there anyway :-P